Net Exchange Response
Title: About Involving parents in school MH programs
Date Posted: 6/15/2015
Question: How are schools involving parents in programs for school MH?
Response: With respect to mental health concerns, parents and families can
play key roles across a continuum of student and learning supports that spans:
classroom and school-wide programs to promote healthy development and
prevention of problems
support for students as soon as problems are noted
interventions when problems are serious and long lasting, including special
For a brief discussion of this continuum conceived as a unified, comprehensive, and
equitable system, see:
How do school try to involve parents and families throughout this continuum?
In general, a variety of psychological, socioeconomic, language, racial, and ethnic factors
affect a parent's motivation to actively participate in programs at a school. If a student
receives mental health services at school and is not a special education student, family
involvement often depends on district or provider organization's guidelines.
For promoting healthy development and preventing problems, schools may stress
family involvement in a variety of classroom and school-wide programs (e.g.,
efforts at school and at home to enhance student social-emotional development;
ensuring supports to prevent psychosocial and education problems).
For early after onset interventions, parents may be involved in discussion of
problems, asked for consent, and encouraged to participate in programs that have a
component for family involvement in supporting the student.
For severe/chronic emotional, behavioral, and/or learning problems, students need
special assistance and sometimes special education. Parent participation includes
problem solving. And, of course, the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act
(IDEA) requires parents participation in special education service decisions,
setting IEP goals, and ongoing discussions of progress.
See the following Center resources for discussion of (1) using initial contacts to assess and
address parent motivation for involvement and (2) maintaining motivated parent
involvement over time:
Responses from the Field:
We shared the question with a few colleagues in the field; here some responses:
“We basically operate with the understanding that anything we do around youth with
mental or behavioral health challenges will work better if we involve parents or
caregivers. So, we look for opportunities and especially so with our most challenging
youth to involve parents/caregivers as partners in helping their child succeed. We
also work with the understanding that, for many, they have no reason to trust us or
even return our call given that their past interactions have often been only about what
their child is doing wrong. And, we don't give up on them if they at first don't want
to work with us.
Specifically, we work with teachers to give ‘good calls’ home, we partner
with parents on behavior plans, check-in/check-out interventions. We are often
re-framing behavior for teachers, parents, helping them to better understand it
(trauma lens), see it in a more positive context, focus on improvement rather
than overall performance. For 1:1 services often provided by interns, we involve
them as part of our assessment but also to check in regularly about positive
things we're seeing, invite them in to get their perspective periodically. Time and
time again, that involvement leads to the parent sharing their own stressors,
getting support and agreeing to seek more intensive services for their own selves.
That's my short answer. I have many examples including involving parent/
caregivers in RJ harm circles which, for some, has been the most positive
experience they have ever had with the school. I hope that's a little helpful.”
“You definitely make me think. . . . In our project aware grants, we are beginning to
review our multi-tiered systems of supports and a few model schools that stand out.
We have some system practices in place we would like to scale. The short term
answer: involve parents one by one, at each treatment team meeting while building
the system infrastructure to address this issue. If anyone is familiar with our World
Wide Voyage, of the Hokulea http://www.hokulea.com/voyages/our-story, they will
know that answering this question ‘Takes a Voyage’. There often must be years of
planning and systematizing the effort, before you can launch a successful parent
school partnership, which often is supported through a Community School effort.
Here are some of the things we know work in small doses ... we would like to scale
these basics to more schools:
The old adage... it takes a village still rings true and with that, the voyage can
begin with those who have the stamina to work toward improved systems that support
our families as partners in the process.”
Referral Process known to all staff, families, students
- School team that addresses referrals and prioritizes needs, assigns and monitors
- School Advisory that allows for teachers, families, stakeholders to come and
address MH or behavior problems systemically, and problem solve school
- Complex Area/District Teams that work on community resources that schools
may have access to (goal is to increase parent and student leader voice in
addressing resources and solving system problems)
- State, District, School coordination and integration of resources and systems to
increase student, family and community input on MH issues.
- “It seems like a simple question but can be somewhat challenging to achieve. . . . In
our state, we are very fortunate to have a company, Parent Action For Healthy Kids
that the Dept of Education works with closely to help us help schools actively and
thoroughly engage parents. Through our recent work with the S3 grant and the 22
‘persistently low achieving high schools’ we are able to help several of our schools
authentically and effectively engage parents. The focus isn't just re: school mental
health per se but the overall school climate and conditions for learning, which we
know definitely includes SMH. ... for more on this, see
Additionally, with our school based health centers, the mental health (and
medical) providers work to include parent involvement with any programming they
provide in the school as warranted. In many cases, parents are consenting for their
child to receive these school based services and so are aware and available to
communicate with the providers as they offer services to their student/child. These
two answers are more general and not necessarily specific but practicals can be
provided if needed. . . . ”
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UCLA Center for Mental Health in Schools
Dept. of Psychology, P.O.Box 951563, Los Angeles, CA 90095.
email: firstname.lastname@example.org ~ web: http://smhp.psych.ucla.edu